I want to...stand up to brash, overbearing and prejudiced bullies at work or in school;
I don't want to...make up, read, listen to, re-tell, or harass others with crude or clever jokes and comments that suggest others are inferior or useless.
I want to...follow my conscience;
I want to...extend respect, reach out and help those whose path I come across, but are outside of my race, neighbourhood or familiar social circle.
I want to...be a skilled worker and gainfully employed, rather than depending mostly on a partner or any benefits;
I don't want...the pretence that I love my family more, when I'm really into the sham of self-centred, self-made personal success.
I want to...reduce the amount that I spend on or borrow for non-essentials like designer clothing, bling, prestige holidays, outings and vehicles, endless home enhancements and fake cosmetic accessories, while my extended family, the sick and frail need financial help.
I want to...be authentic, caring and generous, not selfish.
I want to...stop my food and drink binges for good.
I want to...end my fear of giving up the material gain that boosts my acceptance and pride, as well as the admiration and popularity of friends and acquaintances.
I want to...feel loved for who I am, not what I have or can provide.
I want to...pay off my debts and save funds to help the hospitalised and terminally ill with their medical/family/financial hardships.
I want to...practice personal giving of resources and time to the hospitalised, the very young, the sick, the injured and suffering;
I don't want to...treat the mother/father of my children as an obstacle to my freedom.
I want to...stop carrying grudges over past hurts.
I want to...desire forgiveness for those who hurt me, and from those whom I've hurt, just like God desires to forgive me for hurting Him;
I don't want to...compete for my partner's attention and try so hard to keep my partner's eyes away from anyone else;
I don't want to...maintain my life partner's loyalty by constantly trying to attract his/her attention. My life partner should just love me for me.
I don't want to...be a secret domestic bully.
I want to...fight for a single lifelong loving intimacy with one person and not give in to explicit, or implicit irresponsible sexual behaviour;
I want...a permanent life partner as my friend and confidante, not someone who will either mostly ignore me when I grow old, or just wants me for sex fixes and domestic convenience.
I want to...avoid any TV and internet media that present desperate, misguided or exploited people as objects of lust, ridicule or comedy;
I don't want to...read or relay scandal and gossip about the famous.
I want to...be able to share my Internet surfing history without the shame of greed before God, or my peers and co-workers.
I don't want...my kids playing or acting out violent, or sexually explicit video content;
I want to...fight the indifference towards any programme that praises explicit violence, racism, sexist comedy, contempt for doing right and immediately change the channels.
I don't want to...let celebs, TV personalities, leisure pursuits, fan web-sites and magazines twist my views about my relationship with others, material things and the roles of men and women.